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#156: Give Feedback So They Can Hear It

September 28, 2025 • Becca Silver

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Why does the same feedback spark growth in one teacher but shut down another? In this episode, Becca Silver unpacks the research on the “four ways of knowing” and how it shapes the way educators receive feedback. You’ll learn how to recognize these differences, adjust your coaching approach, and move past resistance with compassion and clarity. This conversation will help you shift feedback from frustration to connection, so real growth can take root.

🔗Discover the research behind how teachers truly hear feedback in Tell Me So I Can Hear You.

Check out The Resistance Remedy to learn more tools (like the Ways of Knowing) to strategically break through resistance!